When it comes to dating, the Bible does not explicitly provide guidance. However, there are certain principles that can be derived from biblical teachings that can help Christians approach dating in a responsible and God-honoring way. At Focus on the Family, we have offered a variety of resources and expert advice that apply biblical principles to this area. It is important to note that the concept of dating did not exist in biblical times.
In those days, the process of finding a spouse was largely based on family lineage and economic status. Therefore, when it comes to dating, it is important to keep in mind that it should be done with a sense of spiritual responsibility. Modern dating has its roots in the sexual revolution of the 1960s. However, many evangelicals who believe in the infallibility of the Bible and its sufficiency have adopted the world's ideas about dating.
This is why it is important to understand that while God does not provide us with a direct plan for dating, He does give us everything we need to get where He wants us to go. Biblical quotes tend to emphasize spending time with other people that the couple knows well or engaging in group activities. The Scriptures also encourage respect for elders and purity in relationships between men and women. Do not rebuke an older man, but encourage him as you would with a father, young people as brothers, old women as mothers, young women as sisters, with all purity.
